Thursday, November 21, 2013

November 20th - Universal Children's Day


Yesterday was the United Nations' Universal Children's Day... it was an opportunity for organizations around the world to promote, protect, and educate about all things Children. In the Dominican Republic, Caminante was invited to several different activities around the Santo Domingo and Boca Chica areas. The team split forces to make as many events as possible!

While Denisse and a majority of the staff participated in a local "lanzamiento" or project launch for Caminante and Children International's programming in the Boca Chica area, Olga and I headed out before the sun to a prayer breakfast in Santo Domingo. The breakfast was to for "prayer and action" specifically focusing on violence prevention and elimination.



The breakfast was held in the "Hotel Embajador" and was attended by many different religious leaders and organizations... it truly was an ecumenical event including people from the Catholic, Protestant, Hindu, Islam, Judaism religions. While we were treated to a delicious breakfast, we heard from World Day of Prayer and Action, Coalition of NGOs for Childhood, CONANI, and Global Network of Religions for Children. In addition international organizations such as Save the Children, Catholic Relief Services, and UNICEF were in attendance. I especially enjoyed a musical presentation (who performed at the breakfast then magically performed at Caminante 30 minutes later). A group of youth also presented the program "Joven C Plus" a innovative education program working to "learn to live together."



Check out Manny Rosado singing: "La Paz Retornara" 


CONANI and Global Network of Religions for Children each presented their findings about violence against children and adolescents and their plans for prevention and elimination. CONANI is the government organization protecting children's rights in the Dominican Republic. GNRC is an international organization that has been present in the DR since 2010. They work to create a network of religions, NGOs, Communities and Government to create a better world for children.


We closed with an interfaith prayer with religious leaders, children and adults each participating.




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Wednesday, November 13, 2013

10 Ways to overcome Boredom

Being away during the holidays is especially difficult, any missionary will tell you one of the greatest challenges of the lifestyle is loneliness. Not loneliness in the traditional form, but the kind that you feel with out your family and friends, the long term, do anything and everything together, kind are difficult to make. In my case 100% of my friends are work related... nothing wrong with that except that you usually don't want to hang out on the weekends and evenings with the same people you hang out with all day. On top of all that, Caminante has been doing some minor construction and painting which means practically no space and terrible smell/sounds... so, lots of "work from home" time in the mornings and not so much work to do. So, in order to overcome these bumps in the road.

10 Things that make each day go by a little faster:

1. Coffee - Especially with Pumpkin Spice Creamer

2. Fall (and Halloween) decorations lovingly sent from home

3. Hulu, Netflix, and "Megashare": the amount of TV and Movies I have watched lately is for sure unhealthy, but it passes the time.

4. Cooking, trying new recipes, and going out to dinner

5. Going on walks and/or playing on the beach with the dog

6. Endless pinterest lesson planning for my music class and homework rooms

7. Reading any and every blog on the internet about international living

8. Applying for Graduate School

9. Trying to be better at following international news

10.  Counting down the days until I submit myself to freezing cold air and the warmest welcome I can imagine! Only 36 more to go!


Thursday, November 7, 2013

Hair.




This blog has been in the back of my mind for months as the topic of hair comes up about 5 times a day in my office... my coworkers are about 50/50 on the natural/straightened debate and due to the separation, talk about hair a lot. I have been known to protest that I too, have "natural hair" although this seems to fall on deaf ears as it usually comes after some comment about my not so great hair doing skills and/or tendency to wash my hair daily and/or use of dry shampoo (you fine hair blondies know this is KEY to looking good after a long day!)


Hair straightening with super high heat, rollers, and Tuvi
(http://rapunzelthefutureofhair.com)
Hair in the Dominican Republic is important, like really really important. In general, looking nice, clean, and put together daily is the norm. Hair and clothes (and big gold jewelry) are the main two outlets of style and fashion... and as such outlets also give hints to class. Most Dominican women hit the salon 2 or 3 times a week to get their hair washed, dried, and straightened using chemicals and/or heat. It is a long process but compared to US prices is fairly inexpensive, a wash/dry/style costs about 300 pesos in Boca Chica or around $8. In addition, a trip to the salon probably includes: shaving ones eyebrows and getting your nails done. I have been dragged to the salon under the pretenses of, "we are girls, this is what we do on Saturday" exactly 2 times... and they were the longest 5+ hours of my life. This cultural norm is not limited to women, men too hit the barber at least 2 times a week if not many more for a shave (beard, mustache, eyes, forehead and neck) and once a week to keep their hair short, a requirement for school and many work places. 


Natural Hair gals
July (in the front) recently took the final step of the "big cut"
But, the point of this post is not the long salon process nor the frequency of salon visits... it is the debate between natural or "afrodominicana" and chemically/high heat straightened hair. The number of women and teen girls who have gone for the "big cut" or are planning to do so has grown exponentially even in the years time I have been in the DR. This "big cut" is when women cut out all of their chemically straightened hair, this typically happens after a period of growing out your hair... a difficult time because you have half straight-half curly hair! Two friends recently just had the "big cut" and their reactions have been very interesting... while both are totally rocking their new short afros, one is much more comfortable in hers. My other friend, is constantly in need of reassurance that her hair is cute and can't wait for it to grow out. Unfortunately men/boys seem to make a huge difference here... I have been told on numerous occasions (once even my a 7 year old) that cutting your hair is like giving up on all chances of finding a man. Really guys? In the US, we love a long hair doo, but we also think short pixis and bobs are mature, elegant, and sexy. Many young girls will tell you that straight, long hair is most desirable and that they can not achieve the look they would like... to me this is heart breaking, to have accepted that you are not and will never be beautiful! When ever anyone, especially a young girl, tell me my skin or hair are beautiful, I quickly say thank you and tell them I like their hair and skin color too and how I wish I could have a FRACTION of their volume and curl, let alone the vast number of style options for kinky-curly hair: twists, little/big braids, afro, curls, and the list goes on!


July looking professional and beautiful after the "big cut"!
But the hair debate has gone way, way further than pretty or not pretty. The racism toward darker skin and dislike of natural kinky-curly hair has entered into the public schools and "professional" community. I have heard numerous stories, including from one of Caminante's board member. Her daughter has been sent home from school on numerous occasions for wearing her hair curly to school. The principle argues that having "wet" hair is not allowed in the dress code, but her hair is not wet, just covered in conditioners to give her a curly but not frizzy look. In the Dominican it is typical for young girls to wear several braids with beads off the top of their head until they are 13 or 14 years old. When they reach an appropriate age they can begin to wear their hair out of braids...and most begin using chemical straighteners at this time. We know using chemical straighteners and colors quickly damages and kills hair particles slowing growth. For this reason, many young women in their 20s and 30s are making the cut and encouraging others to do the same. Many of my coworkers are part of communities of women who meet to share styling and healthy hair tips. 
Many pro-women and pro-afrodominicana groups are advocating for young girls' rights to go to school with natural hair. A popular campaign has popularized the phrase, "a la escuela voy como yo soy: por que MI escuela valora MI identidad" (I go to school how I am: because MY school values MY identity). The organization called El Árbol Maravilloso visits schools to present a show "María Palito y Otras Divertidas Princesas" to build selfesteem and teach children and teachers/administrators alike about the importance of embracing diversity and eliminating racist practices in school's rules and regulations. (find out more from the AP here)
Caminante staff showing off their "afrodominicanas"
Caminante also works to help girls and teens become comfortable in their own skin with "Chicas Brillantes" an educational program to increase young girls awareness of powerful women in their culture, embrace racial, cultural, and religious differences, teach about the importance of self-love, education, and sexual health. In addition, the several staff members of Caminante proudly wearing "afrodominicana" walk daily into public schools, meet with government officials, and families slowly creating a greater acceptance of natural hair! Everyone, straight, curly, long, and short can learn from the lessons of El Arbol Maravilloso and Chicas Brillantes... we are who we are and we SHOULD be comfortable wearing our own skin and hair the way it came to us. Everyone has good hair days and bad, but we should always feel safe to rock our own look no matter where or how old we are!         

Tuesday, October 29, 2013

Racism and the Law

A report and summary of 3 documents from the religious community of the Dominican Republic written for Global Ministries about the recent passed, racist and demeaning, law. This law has the ability to affect almost all Dominicans, as most have a parent of grandparent who comes from Haiti, Spain, or any other country! Unfortunately, it was written with racist intent and will mostly affect poor, Haitian families.
Written By: Ashley Holst

On September 23rd, 2013 the Constitutional Court of the Dominican Republic passed Judgment No. 0168-2013 that will strip people, who were previously legal citizens of the Dominican Republic, of their citizenship based on heritage. The court decision refers to those born after 1929, most of who are of Haitian decent and whose families were trafficked to the Dominican Republic to work in sugar cane plantations and/or construction industry. The court decision defines 2nd, 3rd, and 4th generation children of Haitian decent and residents of the Dominican for up to 80 years as “in transit” back to their “native country,” Haiti. Those affected were born in the Dominican Republic and have spent their entire lives with Dominican birth certificates and passports.  They will be stripped of citizenship and nationality, resulting in civil rights violations of crisis of legal identity and the loss of opportunities to study, work, travel, marry, and move freely. With decision 168-2013 the Dominican Republic violates international agreements. Caminante Proyecto Educativo and Director, Denisse Pichardo is standing with the religious communities in defense of a historically oppressed group of people.

CONDOR, a conference of religious leaders in the Dominican Republic wrote a press release on October 9th, 2013 stating its “unanimous condemnation” of the decision that strips people of basic human rights based on racist sentiments. They also shared sympathy for and solidarity with those who are affected by the judgment. CONDOR’s statement quoted Pope Francis’ message for World Day of Migrants and Refugees to be given on January 2014, “Here we find the deepest foundation of the dignity of the human person, which must always be respected and safeguarded. It is less the criteria of efficiency, productivity, social class, or ethnic or religious belonging which ground that personal dignity, so much as the fact of being created in God’s own image and likeness (cf. Gen 1:26-27) and, even more so, being children of God. Every human being is a child of God! He or she bears the image of Christ!

The Latin American Council of Churches (CLAI) also released a letter to Dominican President, Danilo Medina Sánchez on October 22nd, 2013. The CLAI represents 20 Latin American Countries and in the DR alone represents two Global Ministries Partners: Iglesias Evangelica Dominicana and el Servicio Social de Iglesias Dominicanas (SSID).  The CLAI stated their refusal of court decision 168-2013 and reminded the President that in September 2005 the Inter-American Court on Human Rights found the Dominican Republic guilty of an illegal attempt to strip the rights and nationality of two Dominican born girls of Haitian decent. The council respected the Nation’s ability to write migration law, but confirmed that it is inhumane and illegal under the Inter-American Court of Human Rights to refuse nationality of those born in the Dominican solely based on the foreigner status of their decedents.

In a third response from the Christian community, a Coalition of Catholic Priests reminded the nation of three separate laws in contrast to the newly decided 168-2013: Article 18.2 of the Dominican Constitution states that nationality and legal protections are determined at time and place of birth. The Constitution also states that it is illegal to increase the vulnerability of the poor (Article 74.4) and to create retroactive laws that revoke previously given rights (Article 110). The priests strongly stated that affected people are, without doubt, brothers and sisters in Christ and equally part of the Dominican people. They finished by saying that it is the duty of the Christian Community to enforce justice and brotherhood and to uplift the poor and the oppressed, “God upholds the cause of the oppressed and gives food to the hungry… the Lord lifts” (Psalm 146, 7-9).

The religious community of the Dominican Republic will stand in opposition to racism and the violation of human rights. They will continue to protest court decision 168-2013 while working to protect and support those affected by the decision. Caminante Proyecto Educativo, as a Christian organization, will continue to promote, educate, and protect the internationally given rights children regardless of race, religion, decent, nationality, or lack of legal status.

Tuesday, October 15, 2013

Indulging in Cuba

Indulgence, one of the deadly sins, is next to impossible to avoid in Cuba. Havana city built its history on delicious food, flowing rum, tobacco, and Afro-Cuban music. Today all continue to strive despite oppression and poverty. Locals and tourists alike flock the streets and parks to enjoy local musicians and a cocktail. The communist leadership and extreme oppression of Cuba are heavy and hard to understand but I will share more about my social and political observations in a post to come...  

Food 

In Havana small family or private restaurants are popping up all over the city. If you enjoy "plated" meals and don't mind limited options, these restaurants offer delicious food and a fun experience. Most include a drink (or two), appetizer and/or bread, soup, meat of your choice, sweet potatoes/plantains, veggies, rice, AND flan! We also enjoyed dinner at Los Nardes, one of Havana's most popular restaurants  loved by Cubans and tourists alike! And I know why, the food was delicious (and HUGE portions), the sangria perfect, and the deserts a perfect end to the night! We waited about an hour in line OUTSIDE and spent easily 3 hours indulging! We also ate at the oldest restaurant in Havana, "Dos Hermanos". 


Shrimp Creole
Delicious Roasted Chicken at Los Nardes!
Leg of Lamb at Los Nardes
We also had a Cuban birthday celebration at "The Lotus" in Havana's Chinatown, another famous resturant with huge portions and great prices. Jeanette was so surprised, especially since she didn't even know it was her birthday! But the flaming flan and serenade was enough to justify our little white lie.     


Flaming Flan at "The Lotus"
Drinks 

The girls and I followed Cuban tradition by enjoying our fair share of mojitos and daiquiris around Havana. Both were "invented" in Havana and made famous by Earnest Hemingway. Hemingway wrote, "My mojito in La Bodeguita, My daiquiri in la Floridita" These drinks are especially tempting as they run less expensive (and certainly more delicious) than a coke or water in many places! 
Earnest Hemingway's "Floridita"

Cuban Daiquiri
The Bacardi building stands tall and beautiful above Havana but today, sits empty as the company moved its empire to Puerto Rico. Instead, today "Havana Club" runs the scene in Cuba, its factory and parent store located in Old Havana and its labels plastered on restaurants and bars around the city!  
Cristal - Cuba's (one and only) Beer
Tobacco

While I must admit, not a single one of us smoked any cigars during our trip, we decided to tour the "Partaga's La Casa del Habano." The different types of cigars vary by length, fatness, and the ratios of types of leaves. The leaves have differing flavors and strengths based on where they come from on the tobacco plant and where the plantation is located. The rolling specialists are trained in every type of cigar but once they become professionals they make just one type of cigar for quality control, size and ratio of leaves in each cigar, so one "roller" completes the entire cigar making process. The cigars go through quality control when testers smell, taste, and measure the cigars. Lastly another department and color specialists match cigars by color so that each box has a unified color. Each employee gets to keep 10 cigars each day for personal use. When you complete the tour, you can purchase these cigars directly from the workers... in my opinion this was a fun way to help the individual employees and "chose" a special cigar. 
Fresh off the presses... literally. 
Music & Dance 

Salsa is king in Cuba but the Afro-Cuban rumba is queen. Live music and dancing are everywhere, an outstanding number of people make their living as musicians and/or dancers. The constant pressure to give tips to people on the streets to whom you kindly said no thank you is a little much, but in restaurants and clubs the live music is a nice touch. 

We visited two music/salsa houses during our stay in Havana. Hotel Florida, a popular and small salsa club full of dance teachers and their tourist dance students. Dancing here was fun because the Cubans were used to dancing with learners and there were enough bad dancers to make you feel comfortable with your not so amazing Cuban salsa skills. A couple of the girls and I headed to the "Casa de Musica" for a Mikael Blanco concert. In this venue, those not dance teachers or advanced students were shamed to swaying in front of the stage or sitting in the back. We gladly watched Lenka dance her shoes off and fended off the Cuban dance teachers.   


Casa de Musica - Habana Centro 


Friday, September 20, 2013

The Caribbean, where the living is easy...

Life, my life has been crazy, my life has been fun, my life has been way way way too stressful. Whoever said life in the Caribbean was stress free was lying. Someone should have told me, working with kids, in the fall, in the schools is very stressful. It is like a constant waiting game with marathon days thrown in the middle. We FINALLY got one of my Sala de Tareas opened up this week, thank you God. We are crossing our fingers that two more start next week and the final 4 can open in the first weeks of October.

Making beautiful music!
Unfortunately we have been trying to figure out all the locations, teachers, and schedules because we only have 2 returning teachers and had to move locations for several salas and are opening 2 new salas in new communities. Many of the spaces also need(ed) fresh paint, major cleaning, and/or new desks and chairs. On top of all of that, our Sala de Tareas are funded by two organizations: Global Ministries and EPC (Space for Growth)... so we have to decide which will follow which curriculum and/or receive funding from which program.

Alongside my "old" duties with the Sala de Tarea, I am taking on a new project with Denisse and Jesica. We are working with UNICEF to create a contract and code of conduct to reduce the number of minors entering hotels. The project and subsequent training come from two other internation organizations: ECPAT International and The Code. Commercial sexual exploration of children and adolescents is a world wide issue, but Boca Chica has the highest rate of sexual trafficking and exploitation of minors in the Dominican Republic. A majority of the time sexually trafficked minors or minor prostitution is difficult to identify because the children and adolescents use fake identification or are assisted/allowed into hotels by hotel staff. In Boca Chica, many tourists also take children or adolescents to "the island" which takes them away from any protection of police or Caminante.

In addition to signing the code of conduct, Caminante will provide training for all hotel staff and employees of the tourist industry. Hypothetically/hopefully training for employees in the cash sector (ex. taxi drivers), restaurants, tour companies will be mandated by the ministry of tourism. Currently we are meeting with the Boca Chica Directors (a representation of city and community leaders which Denisse is a part of), the 3 major hotels of Boca Chica, Ministry of Tourism, and the city government to begin educating the top leadership about the program and why it is necessary in Boca Chica. If you have not checked out ABC's special on Boca Chica and sexual tourism, you should... find it here: Nightline Investigates: Boca Chica.

While getting started, I have had the blessing/challenge of coordinating 5 university students from Oslo, Norway. Breaking the most important missionary rule ever, I have made some very special friends who I can already say I will be incredibly sad to say goodbye to at the end of the semester. I am having a blast being a tourist with these girls and it has been so fun to have some girls to hang out with (girl friends are sorely lacking in the DR... who knew). Coordinating daily schedules for 5 very active and interested girls has proven to be quite the task, leaving me more office bound than I am used to and in need of some major stress relievers. I now feel incredibly grateful for everyone who helped me in my first months here... late night emergencies, doctors visits (I think we are up to 5), endless trips to the grocery store and capital, and lots and lot and lot of meetings/phonecalls/planning sessions. Putting the work aside, having these girls here has been a blast: the laughs, dinners, dancing, boy chats, and shopping have filled a large hole in my heart, at least for a few weeks (coming soon, my sad sad blog when they leave me)...





Tuesday, August 27, 2013

"De Fiesta" -- Campamento de Joven

Last weekend I attended Asociacion Joven de Iglesia Evangelica Dominicana 's summer camp. While I was a day late to the "fiesta" due to the first week(s) of school in Boca Chica... and I have to admit I was dreading a weekend out of town and the bus ride to Bani. Despite my reservations I was amazed at how a couple days making new friends, reflection, and worshiping with some amazing young musicians. 

Worship team preparing for Saturday morning's worship.
Friday afternoon started with group games in our 4 designated groups, I was on the "Azul" team. We played trivia with questions about the previous day's charlas and bible studies as well as sillier questions about team member and council members names, years involved in the program, and churches. We took second at the game but were apparently still in last place for the weekend thus far. After some free time and dinner the group headed into the "temple" for a 3 hour worship service. Despite the length, the speaker offered a great message about the importance of the youth and God's plan for us. She spoke of how she was a Doctor of Pharmacy when God called her to ministry, but that she has been able to continue in ministry because God gave her many talents, the hospital that she used to work at continues to use her expertise often and pays her for her training thus financially supporting her ministries. Her point was that if God calls us to serve in a unique way, God will help us complete the task. My favorite parts of all the worships throughout the weekend was the music. There was a mix of traditional and contemporary music and each service the music worship leaders changed. There was always a full band and several singers to lead the group. The pastor who spoke also invited anyone who needed or wanted special prayers to come to the front. She along with the other pastors and leaders prayed over the youth. This element of worship is totally out of my comfort zone but it was actually a really beautiful element of the service and it was obvious that some of the youth were waiting on this moment and many people were very emotionally touched. The music continued to pray and while I didn't go up to the front, I felt a release after an extremely busy and draining summer. Even though it is not in my traditional church background, something about praying hard and singing/listening to the music for 30+ minutes was relaxing and energizing. Strangely it seemed to be just what I needed to dive into the camp experience. 

Blue team having a small group discussion
Youth receiving special prayers from pastors.
Saturday started with more worshiping (although much shorter) and a charla on relationships. Now, the evangelical sense of dating is not what I, the UCC, or Caminante would prefer... the speaker made some good points. He started by saying that there are 3 main points to a Christian relationship: Love, Care, and Respect. This, I don't think any of us can argue with. He found these 3 steps from Paul's writings to the church, Paul states that the church is like Jesus' wife and from that men (and woman) can learn how to treat one's wife or husband. He also made a well argued point about the seriousness of dating and the importance of remembering that the "point" of dating is to build a (possibly) long term relationship that may or may not end in a marriage. He also reminded them to remember that one day each of them will probably be a spouse to you should always treat your boyfriend or girlfriend as though he or she may be your husband or wife one day. Now, he did go on to make a very brief statement about homosexuality but he didn't go on nor was it unexpected so I let it slide without too much grief. Although I did make the observation that there were at least 2 young people at the camp who I thought may be struggling with their sexuality. 

Worship Band
The afternoon went on with more games, a dinner of "sombreros y corbatas," and another worship service. The service also included another personal prayer session but this one was to ask anyone ready for the "metamorphosis" to come forward. Again about half of the group came forward although this Pastor prayed with much more force. As the time went along she called on people to come forward for special prayers such as low self-esteem, going away to college, being a leader of Christ, etc. As the closing worship I think many of the youth were appreciative of the special attention. I liked how she called attention to the issues that many young adults deal with in daily life and prayed for strength, self confidence, and gave praise to youth as a whole. 

Putting back together Plantains with tape and glue!
Some of the Villa Duarte Youth!
Villa Duarte Youth!
Following the worship was the best part of the weekend, an amazing talent show. Each church prepared a skit to present... including black lights, slide shows of their years activities, dancing, singing, and presentation. IT WAS AWESOME. As the last act, two youth presented their new CD by performing their songs... while they have work to do, it was a perfect place for their first performance. We finished up about 2am and moved into the award ceremony of the weekend. Unfortunately the blue team ended up in 4th place, but I still had fun playing and discussing with my team. 

Villa Duarte Youth singing.
A youth group performing a skit!
A youth group performing a black light dance!
Sunday morning came early and the Villa Duarte crew loaded into our hired van and headed back to the church... a few students stayed for worship but most of us headed to our homes to catch up on sleep! I was exhausted but the good kind... and I felt filled, refreshed, and ready to take on the new school year. 

Wednesday, August 21, 2013

Beautiful Feet

"He said to them, “Go into all the world and preach the gospel to all creation." (Mark 16:15 NIV)

Meeting Sister Denisse and sharing a first meal together at Caminante!
It was Onea's first time out side of the US after working for GM for many many years!
I have been taught all summer long by the amazing young people that I have been privileged to work with. First I was blown away by the dedicated Dominican youth volunteers who worked for four weeks to make our summer camp possible. While I shamefully stated on many accounts that I wished American youth could be as selfless... my call to be reminded of the amazing youth in the US was abundantly filled by 12 young adults and Global ministries staff. These students came on a People to People Pilgrimage with Global Ministries. They were chosen to participate for their dedication to the church and their communities as well as their cultural and ethnic backgrounds. 

Learning to hand craft Coconut Jewelry with the Nin@s Trabajadores.

Having a blast playing with the Nin@s Trabajadores and Street Situation Groups of Caminante.
Together we were reminded of God's love and devotion to us as we traveled around Boca Chica and Santo Domingo. We dove into amazing discussions and observations about social structures, education systems and the importance of education, the family, poverty, and need. From day one, I felt rejuvenated by their passion for learning, energy for playing, and ability to form a loving family group in a few short hours. By the end of their time, I had been reminded why I too had felt called to come to the Dominican Republic, to serve Global Ministries, and to accompany Caminante. 

Visiting La Torre, a poor community north of Caminante.
Here the community built and runs a three room school for Elementary students.

Through fresh eyes and open hearts this group of young adults made observations and statements of faith that blew me, and their leadership team, out of the water. While visiting La Casona, Center for Capacitaction the students recognized the importance of education and "how easy" education accessibility is in the United States. Again the students were touched by the drive many students have to receive an education when they heard firsthand how many students have to walk several hours each day to a public high school because their own community offers only elementary classes in a three room community school. We also discussed how many students are disadvantaged due to a lack of supplies and or uniforms and that some schools are staffed by volunteers with little education and some teachers lack the passion to teach, rarely lesson plan, and cancel class often.
 
Small group games and discussions with Dominican youth were an incredible success in Monte Rey.
The small groups self selected and discussed issues
including gangs, education, teen pregnancy, abuse, and drugs
.

Another topic of discussion throughout the week was the many reasons why children and adolescents work outside of the home. Many of the students made very insightful observations after discussing with the different groups of Caminante or witnessing interactions on the streets. The group met and several had intimate conversations with a homeless boy who had been trafficked from Haiti after wanting to run away from his family. While the young boy initially lied saying his mother abandoned him in a Boca Chica hotel, the group helped to speak in Creole with him and eventually came to a story that we believe to be closer to the truth. Later in the week a few of the students had the opportunity to walk down Duarte, Boca Chica’s main strip after dark. When they gave their observations, one of the younger girls in the group told the group, “these girls do NOT want to be doing this… they were scared and the men were saying, ‘don’t worry, baby. It won’t hurt.’” This was such an important observation because many people believe that prostitution is a choice of work, this young student quickly realized that the young girls did not have a choice and more importantly were very young and scared being coerced and sexually abused by their “clients” and “pimps/boyfriends”. Despite being young in years, the group – from different backgrounds, families, social and economic statuses – was incredibly mature and thoughtful about very difficult situations.


Visiting the first western church in the "New World."
It is located in Columbus Square in Santo Domingo.
Watching an outdoor concert in Zona Colonial, Ruins of San Francisco. 
This group of young adults lived up to their name, “pilgrimage.” They were called, as Mark said, to “go into all the world” to learn about God, faith, themselves, human kind, and the world. Sometimes it takes an adventure, a new experience, to open the mind and heart to a special type of ministry. These amazing young people offered a ministry and a mission to Caminante’s kids by getting dirty in the coconut jewelry workshop, playing hard on the beach, and spending hours talking to other young adults in the communities visited. Now, with these new understandings and experiences, they will speak to their churches, families, friends, schools and communities to preach their expanded understanding of God, faith, and religion. Romans 10:15 says, “How beautiful are the feel of those who bring good news!” I know that these tanned, tired, and a little sandy feet WILL bring good news of the Caminante and the faithful work its staff and youth are doing to better the lives of Boca Chica’s children.


"And how can anyone preach unless they are sent? As it is written: “How beautiful are the feet of those who bring good news!”" (Romans 10:15 NIV)

Saying "Happy Birthday" to Franny and "See you Later" to the group!
 

Saturday, August 3, 2013

IED Women's Retreat

I came to the Dominican Republic for many reasons, one of the most important being "for the experiences." Global Ministries bases its partnerships on accompaniment... this philosophy allows for bilateral growth and sharing of backgrounds, challenges, expertises, and experiences. Earlier this year I was invited to participate in several summer camps of the Iglesia Evangelica Dominicana (IED - Evangelical Churches of the Dominican), last weekend I was able to attend the first of these sessions with the Women's Association. 

Morning Bible Study - Staying cool under the mango trees!

In the days leading up to the retreat I was overwhelmed with mixed feelings, I was excited to see what would happen but also very nervous to be far away from Boca Chica and know only a small handful of the women participating. My nerves were not helped by the fact that I did not know how I would actually get to the camp, located in Bani about 2.5 hours from Boca Chica. Wednesday afternoon I finally found a ride to the camp with the Secretary Executive of the denomination and my good friend Kelvin, Reverend Cancu's driver and personal assistant. I also had the pleasure of meeting IED's new missionary from Global Ministries of the Methodist Church!

Morning Bible Study & Drama - Jesus and his disciples with the leper woman

When we arrived, Thursday afternoon, I realized how important this event was to the women of the church, they had come from all over the country, and despite Caribbean time, most had arrived early to help set up, socialize, and get the best purchases in the bazaar.  Everyone was so excited to meet me and my church ladies (and Kelvin) had made sure that I would be well taken care of. I was even given one of the best beds (a sturdy twin with a nice mattress compared to the flimsy metal bunks most stayed in)... I tried to trade beds with every woman in the room and ended up succeeding the next night and trading my luxury bed for a mat on the floor. The love and care continued throughout the weekend... I was personally summoned many times to discuss my life, my work in Boca Chica, and of course asked if I had eaten by no less than 3 people after every meal. On Friday afternoon I was joined by my friend and coworker, Olga. I was very glad to have someone to debrief with on the journey home on the bus, unfortunately there was no special car to take me home...

The IED church I attend is very modern, open, and inclusive, which is one of the reasons why I love going there so much. When I first arrived I attended another church where I was asked if I was a Christian and felt very disheartened by the fact that in Dominican culture only a certain denomination of Christians are called "Christians." At the conference I found that some IED churches still uphold many of the more conservative Evangelical traditions, but was hopeful at the number of young, open minded, and modern women who are working to develop the church and continue to introduce new members. Many, including Pastor Cancu's wife, even spoke out for their rights as educated and independent women during a charla (workshop) on the family. The presenter, who was male, unfortunately spoke from a very machismo, male dominated understanding of the bible. After some amazing female led bible studies it was very disappointing to listen to a male, who was a psychologist, speak in such an oppressive way to a room full of joyful wives, mothers, grandmothers, aunts, and daughters. My heart was filled though as many of these women stood up and intelligently debated with him, even after he distastefully had the nerve to say that one woman was not a Christian because she was not following "God's word" (which he further stated he was teaching). One woman had the bravery to debate with him that yes, speaking from her experience, it was a woman's right to leave an unhealthy and abusive marriage. It should be noted that there were many woman who loved every word and "amen'd" his many demeaning lessons... I hope they continue to discuss amongst the association and help these women understand that a Christian wife and mother does not define an oppressed woman.  I feared this man's "teachings" because I felt they easily justified husbands to verbally, physically, and sexually abuse their wives. While the charla presenter was a dud, the overall cultural trends of the church I heard were hopeful. Two other formal charlas were given on health and personal finance, both were given by male speakers. In the future I hope that the IED Women's Association will first, seriously consider only using women as charla speakers and second, well research the presenters before inviting them to speak. 

Singing and Dancing in the Evenings

While I loved getting to know the younger women of the churches, I was fascinated at some of the rituals of the older generations. Worshiping at IED Villa Duarte on Sundays is a 3 hour affair, but wow, these church ladies love to be "well churched." For many of the older woman, the day started at 5 am out on the lawn with a prayer circle. I took time to watch each morning and they participated in a ritual that is, I believe, unique to the camp weekend. The woman stand in a large circle with some woman in the middle, possibly leading prayers. But each woman prays individually, most out loud. Several of the female pastors and other leaders went from person to person praying with them. Most women were still or slightly rocking but a few shook and danced. Many woman seemed to shake and flail when someone was praying with them. At times women would shout out or wail and the group often broke out into song together. The second morning, the prayer circle seemed to have more healing. Several people were touching and massaging different parts of the women's bodies like arm, knees, feet, and backs. The ailed women were mostly sitting on benches in the center of the circle. While it looked and sounded at times like a revival, the feeling that the dramatic praying was for attention or show was not present, unlike revivals on television or even the ones I have witnessed on the streets in the Dominican. The women seemed to be truly moved by the prayers and the energy in the circle, maybe even just the joy of being united with the other women. After breakfast was a morning worship and bible study, which all were very enlightening and led by different church groups. My congregation led one morning and I was honored to participate in the drama and play a young Mother Mary. The day was filled with charlas, crafts, and socializing, and in the evening a music and dancing worship time. 

Trudi teaching us how to make hand baskets.

There were certainly times when I felt out of place and intruding on a very sacred time for the woman, there were others when I felt right at home... enjoying the calm camp grounds, participating in the craft, chatting with the woman. The style of praise enjoyed by the woman, and many people in the Dominican Republic, would put most American Christians outside of their comfort zone, I was so intrigued to have been able to put myself into a new experience and learn more about myself and my faith as I traveled through this spiritual weekend with the women and the church. The retreat theme was "transformation on the mountain," and a transformational and rejuvenating experience it was, for all.  I was invited to many different areas around the country to visit people's homes and churches and I sincerely hope I can fulfill some of those heartfelt invitations in the coming months. The few days spent with these faithful women, outside of my comfort zone, and with God's people reminded me just what I was called to do, accompany  grow hand in hand with the people, and learn about myself, my God, and my journey. I will be headed back to Bani in the end of August to attend the young adult's retreat and look forward to a whole new population and sharing their faith experiences.





Thursday, July 4, 2013

Pollo Guisado & Platanos Fritos

When I was home in June, I cooked a Dominican dinner for my family and a few friends. It turned out delicious and everyone was impressed with my Dominican cooking skills!

Pollo Guisado: Chicken Stew

Ingredients:
Chicken with skins (we used small chicken breasts and legs) 
A tablespoon of sugar
Celery
Onion
Red Pepper
Green Pepper
Garlic
Tomato Paste &/or Stewed Tomatoes
Chicken Bullion (I used Chicken Broth)
Cilantro, Oregano, Salt

1) Chop all vegetables, I like the peppers in long strips. Prep Garlic by grinding with a pillon, add a little salt to create a creamy paste.


2) Heat a good amount of soy bean or vegetable oil in a pan. When oil is hot put a spoon full of sugar, allow sugar to burn completely and mix into oil. This gives the chicken a beautiful color and adds a slightly sweet burnt flavor!
3) Pan cook the chicken thoroughly.


4) When the chicken is cooked through, add the garlic paste, onion, celery, peppers, cilantro and oregano. Use the leafy end of the celery as well as full stalks of cilantro and oregango for tons of flavor! Allow vegetables too cook on low heat for about 7 minutes. 


5) Now its time to "stew." Add tomato paste and stewed tomatoes (or fresh chopped tomatoes if you like tomato skins, like me) and chicken broth to the pan. Place on a low temperature and cover. I transferred my Pollo Guisado to a crock pot for stewing because I made several pans of chicken! You should allow the chicken to stew for as long as possible, but 30 min should do the trick.

Platanos Fritos: Fried Plantains

Ingredients:
Green Plantains, soy/vegetable oil, & salt.

1) Remove skin and all strings, cut into 1/2 inch pieces and soak in cold salt water.
2) Heat oil in a small pan (this uses less oil). When oil is hot, slowly drop in several pieces. When the outsides are crisp remove from the oil. Once they have cooled smash into a flat pancake. If smashed when too hot they will be very sticky.
3) Place flattened plantains back into the oil to fry the exposed fruit. Finished plantains should be crispy! Salt and serve with ketchup. 


Serve Pollo Guisado and Platanos Fritos with rice (I prepared rice with sweet corn) and a fresh salad!

Dominican salad dressing:
Finely chopped onion and red pepper soaked in vinegar. 
Just before serving add salt and olive oil.